Young virgin dating
Will they treat you differently if they find out you’re a virgin? The guys we surveyed were all over the map on this one: 25% think it’s a turn-on, 35% think it’s a turn-off, 20% say it depends on the context (whether it’s a one-night-stand versus a more committed relationship), and 20% say they don’t care at all.
Do they even want to know this personal information about you? You can stop guessing, because we’ve gotten inside the minds of 15 college guys to learn how they feel about virgins and whether or not they’d be okay with your V-card status. If it’s something more meaningful like the start of a new relationship or a long-term thing, guys consider a girl’s virginity to be a turn-on.
It doesn't make me feel bad about myself because I've made the decision not to have sex yet, but I'll admit that the stigma makes me feel like I'm a naïve outsider or that I'm missing out on all the fun stuff." "One time, a red-blooded, all-American male asked me, 'So, when are you going to get rid of that pesky virginity of yours?
' I'm pretty sure I just shrugged and told him it wasn't a priority.
I didn't like anyone enough to want to have sex, so I didn't.
It wasn't really any sort of conscious decision not to have sex as much as it was [that] there wasn't anyone I wanted to sleep with." "I don't have anything against sex before marriage or, on the flip side, waiting until marriage… I think for me personally, I want to be emotionally and mentally ready for whenever that time comes." "I think it's important to remember that someone who's a virgin can still have a sex life without actually having sex.
Some guys get freaked out and think that a girl who is a virgin is either super religious or younger than she looks.I've got better things to worry about than who I'm going to give my Magical Societal Unicorn Prize away to." "I've had many people laugh at me or be shocked that I haven't had sex yet.I don't really let it bother me because I hear such crazy stories of people being hurt or being called names for having sex with people they barely know or people they thought they could trust." "In this society, it's just expected that after two or three dates, you do the deed. Therefore, I will remain a virgin until some sweet guy that is genuine and kind falls in love with me and I, him." "I wish that more people would respect that it's a very personal decision, and that in the grand scheme of things, it really doesn't affect anyone other than me.But what this bro from Murray Hill didn't know (and what I won't be the one to tell him, since I haven't spoken to him since), is that being a virgin in your 20s is waaaaay more common than people may think.Millennials in general aren't having as much sex as everyone once thought.
We -- males and females alike -- apparently have fewer sexual partners than Gen-Xers and baby boomers did at the same age.