Dating the right way
If you are dating someone who doesn’t have a personal relationship with Christ, you are playing with fire. Don’t let the relationship progress to a physical point and then hope you can cut it off later. You need all the help you can get in today’s world. Do you depend on Him to meet your needs of love and security?
If you can’t stand the person but have a great physical relationship, rethink the relationship. If one person is uncomfortable with any type of physical expression, don’t do it. Don’t push a date to do anything that makes him/her feel uncomfortable.
I’m talking about the “That was fun, let’s do it again sometime, I’ll call you later, maybe in a week” sort of dating.
(That there is no good term for ‘more than dating, less than married’ is a topic for another time…)Why is dating such a raw deal?
If you’ve subjected yourself to the nightmare that is dating, especially via dating app, I don’t have to tell you how painful it is.
You already know the odds of success are low and there’s a lot more noise than signal.
You must decide before you go on the date what your limits will be.
It’s too difficult to think when passion overtakes you. You can resist temptation if you put on the whole armor of God (Eph.
So we Let’s say you press on, though, and try to pick a few winners from the profiles that look OK.
You’ve been in that miserable position of being judged and being the judge, of trying to figure out exactly who it is you’re with and whether they’re worth your time.
On top of all of this you’re trying to at least pretend to enjoy yourself.
Dating is not only unnecessary for love, it’s actually harmful to your chances of finding someone.
First off, let me back up a bit and be specific with what I mean by ‘dating’.