Dating an ex from 20 years ago
We are all in the same boat, I ran into my ex flame from HS and it's been years, talking years over 30 and we both felt the same.We both have met a few times talk about how we were, family, etc. Well, let me back up he just got married 9 years ago, was living with his GF two kids, me three. I had forgotten about it but my brother brought up the past of a city we lived in he was surfing on internet. I found my high school girlfriend from 27 years ago on classmates. The problem is since seeing her picture and profile, I've lost my appetite, and I'm having a hard time sleeping. I realize I can't act on this, or even contact the old flame.I'm having the feelings of a teenager, even though I'm 45. This has happened about 7 years ago with a co-worker and I was able to just keep it to myself and use the opportunity to loose weight. I keep telling myself this will pass, but I haven't felt this way in a long time. thanks I'm in a similar situation, except that whenever I get that feeling, its always about the same girl.i too have feelings all of a sudden for a girl i went to school with, and have not seen for 15 years. She and I (both married to other people) started talking of FB reciently and we are falling insanely in love with eachother.i seen her picture again after 15 years and it is like i am falling all over again. if you find a good way of dealing with this post so i can try your methods No my friend, you are NOT alone. I have always loved her but we were so young and needed to explore our world.That's basically my story fellows and ladies reading this.
I've gotten so bad, that last week, I spent at least a good hour of each of my workdays daydreaming about taking a trip with her. The first time I ran into her after getting married, I nearly had a paniac attack.Now, the love we always had has flowered somehow and the feelings are so beautiful, it literally brings tears to my eyes.I'm not questioning how or why this is happening, I just know that it is and didn't know such a wonderful sense of love was possible at this stage of my life.I am hoping, as a dreamer, that she will tell me she felt the same all these years also, and that we will be able to develop a close friendship again even though we are married. I don't think I would have made a very good husband to her if I would have married her when we were young, and I want to tell her that she was lucky not to have married me, and that had we met when I was more mature, it would have been different for me.I was the one, who at 15 started to date other girls, and then got a girl pregnant, who I married, and stayed with for 10 years.
I didn't expect to ever feel this way about anyone but my wife of 13 years, but my teenage girlfriend - who I'll admit I loved more than my wife (before you ask, she dumped me after HS, and we never got back together) reappeared six months ago via My Space after 18 years and since then we've both felt this insane connection to each other that we never expected to feel again.