Dating a man with baby mama drama
Encourage your husband to set boundaries with her so everyone’s roles and expectations are clear. Be a team with your partner and make sure you two communicate.Make sure you support your partner in prayer, with your time by caring for and loving on his child appropriately and with a good attitude. Also if you have contact with the mother, make sure she knows that you love her child and want to ensure that she’s comfortable and the child has all that he/she needs.Don’t let the pressure of the mother being his ex or the child’s mom rock you from being confident in your relationship. No man wants an insecure woman Don’t compete or compare yourself to her. Who really cares if the parents aren’t best of buds!As long as everyone is respectful and doesn’t speak ill of each other in the presence of the children, nothing else really matters.If we ask in prayer, anything in Jesus’ name, we must believe that he answers prayer.Since you’re praying that the relationship between your partner and the mother gets better, you must believe that God hears you and things are changing in your situation.Confess that she is a good mother, she is patient and kind, she has the fruits of the spirit.
Consider getting a mediator or someone to help you work through the rough patches if necessary. This tip is simple, everything doesn’t deserve a response! You can win her to Christ by your lifestyle and love walk! Look for ways that you and your partner can be a blessing to her and the child.If she knows that you love her child, she just may come around to loving you eventually!If you enjoyed this blog post, I encourage you to subscribe to receive emails regarding future post.Also, encourage him to pray about taking her to court so visitation and child support can be established and in writing. If the mother makes little rude or jealous comments or the children repeat to you what she’s said, you don’t always have to confront her or even repeat it. If the mother’s car is down, encourage your partner to help transport the child where he/she needs to go.If she lost her job encourage your partner to drop a few groceries by for a while until they get on their feet again.
Whatever you need to see changed, believe that when you pray, God hears you and is working it out. Know your role and be confident in your partner’s love and commitment to you. Sometimes in situations like these, the adults lose focus on what’s the most important, CHILDREN!!