1 sex chat request
I can’t believe I’m admitting this, but sometimes…*takes a deep breath* this means I’ll want sex. That way I don’t have to pretend I’m interested in some guy’s travel photos or his mate’s pet cat or the totally amazing gap yah he took where he chilled with some monks.
OK, so this method was hardly going to attract gentlemen. I immediately ruled this guy out, but messaged him back anyway.
It was nice meeting you, I’ll be back in a few weeks, will drop you a line x’ Mate. He only had my first name and mobile number so it was unlikely he’d be able to track much more personal information down.
So I got the hell out of there, ordered an Uber and headed home.
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‘The lobby is cool to start with.’ That way I could leg it if he seemed like he was hiding a hammer in his jacket. I can get you a cab if you want.’ ‘Sure,’ I said, pulling on some decent clothes. Fortunately, the journey was short, and Rob said he was waiting outside the hotel having a smoke. ‘200 and something,’ he said, walking to the minibar.
____ Men like that have been programmed to believe that they finish last. Pay attention to the men who respect your limits and look for the ones who don’t use sex talk to get your attention.
That crowd may be smaller and quieter but it sounds like it’s there that you will find what you’re looking for.
If you’re not interested in a man once he brings up sex too early on, have a good standard response ready, one that reflects your boundaries.
He’s showing you who he is so believe him and move on. Do not continue to get to know someone who disrespects your limits. Here are some things you can say: Just because everyone is seemingly talking about sex right away doesn’t mean you need to.
What if he tied me to the bed, Christian Grey style, then ran away and left me there? ‘Your uh, friend has been texting me,’ the driver said, smirking. For God’s sake man, did I have ‘I’m down to fuck’ written on my forehead or something? They might have called it ‘ambience’ but I felt like I was in a Dickens novel.